This has been a rough week for me. I was involved in a car accident on Father's Day while down in Milwaukee. Actually, I was rear ended while stopped at a red light behind another vehicle and the kid was going bout 35-40 mph and just rammed me. Pissed me off!!

My eldest and most beloved son is not making good decisions in his life and I seem to take on the stress of it, which only exacerbates my injury!!

So, the delivery of a lovely bouquet of flowers at work last Friday was very much welcomed and appreciated.

The only thing is, they did not come from one I most admire. Instead they arrived "anonymous." I do not like those types of gifts, especially in my field of employment, because I imagine Mr. Stalker or Mr. Rapist or Mr. Killer - real talk. Ya'll don't hear me.

As it turns out, I did discover who "anonymous" was and even tho he is definitely NOT the man for me and would probably never receive more than 2 minutes of my time or attention, I was thankful. When I ran into him I told him how much I appreciated his act of kindness, told him he really shouldn't have, but thanked him regardless. I think the way I thanked him made him feel 10 feet tall, because as he walked away, he had this sheepish looking red-faced smile that told me he was very glad he sent me the flowers.

I said to him "if you was my man, you would be getting laid all week!" I truly believe those words surpassed any other words I could have said to him.