Just spouting off again…..

Am I shallow if I request to see a picture of someone who is making every attempt at hitting on me or requesting to get to know me or possibly meet me?

Hell naw I ain’t shallow. I have wasted too much of my time being nice. Here is what I have decided to publish on the pages that I have, so it is painfully clear to the observer. This is because I get so much crap from dudes who accuse me of only being in it for the looks, and calling me a “shallow gold digger.”

WTF is up with these men!!

If you DON`T have a picture on your page, be prepared to provide one upon my request. If you aren`t willing, keep moving. I have tried the nice approach and found that a lot of time is wasted on getting to know someone and possibly having a connection with them only to find out upon meeting in person that I am NOT attracted to them. So, even though you might click with someone on the phone or via emails, you still need to have that physical attraction. I don't give a fukkkkk what you say about being shallow or materialistic. I am a visual person and I go on my physical reaction to HOW YOU LOOK. Please don't come at me if you stank, if you are less than 5'5, if you don't have teeth, if you are without your own resources.

I am not only in it for the looks, but it is a very integral part for me to be attracted to someone. I have TRIED several times to simply get to know a person, via phone and emails, etc. Only to meet them and find that I have absolutely NO attraction to them. Of course, YOU are supposed to think that you are very handsome and I have heard that before, only to be disappointed. I am not trying to tell anyone else how to live their life, but this life belongs to ME and I am going about it how I see fit. If you don’t like it, step to the left please so I can see that brotha standing behind you.